Hard times are always remembered, never disappear from our memories. Passing through a hard times has been the worst experience one ever had, and when it comes ,it will look as if the whole world is crashing you.
People around you sometimes will make the mater worse, but the truth is this, it is not always their fault, but the situation you where in prevents you from seeing the right thing or hearing the right words. When passing true such situation, the best solution is a quiet time.
Difficult times can be triggered from your office, from your friends, family etc. Once it happens , gently look for a quiet place to cool off your head. Don’t try to handle the situation immediately because you will make the greatest mistake of your life. Stay away from the cause of your present situation for a while especially when it comes from friends or family.
Do not drink nor smoke during hard times because that’s not the solution and it’s dangerous to your health. When you form the habit of smoking and drinking during a hard times, it will becomes habitual.
Remember every pain needs time to heal, and there is no problem you might be facing that you have not seen or heard of on earth. There are people with the same level of problem with you, there are people with problems bigger than yours, there are also people with smaller problem than yours.
Read this short story it might change your thought;
While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times;not realising he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father…
with painful eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions…..
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
The child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits;
Choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life…..
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
But the problem in today’s world is that,
People are used and things are loved.
Let’s always be careful to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,but People are to be loved.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
Do u know the relationship between your two eyes?
They blink together, move together, cry together, see things together & sleep together.